Having a heart

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Christian lingo has often confused me.  You hear it often enough that you tend to lose the meaning of phrases that get batted around. One of the phrases that tended to baffle me was “having a heart for missions.”  Whenever I heard that, I heard, “We’re a church that likes to pump our congregation for cash to send our youth group to Mexico for a week.” The last few years, I’ve been rather agonized over social injustice other countries.  (Heck, we have our share here in North America, too, but at least we have a decent court system to root it out.)  I support Amnesty International because I deeply believe in the work that they do.  I hear stories about people who go through horrors and it hits me on a really deep level.  I hate it.  I don’t think it’s fair that we are spoiled rotten in North America while other countries have famines and struggle for survival.  I wish I could change it, and I support organizations that are trying to make things better for everyone. That said, I’d never identify myself as someone “with a heart for missions.” This weekend at church, we heard from a missionary.  I’ll be honest.  I did a little mental eye roll when I realized the speaker would be talking, but I couldn’t have been more wrong.  This was a woman who devotes her life to making things better for people in Brazil.  They run an orphanage for abandoned children and plant churches.  While I don’t believe on pushing religion on anyone (that is very much against my belief structure), I do want those who are searching for some peace when it comes to spiritual matters to find what I’ve found.  I don’t want to tally souls, I just want people to know that God is real and death doesn’t have to be the end for us.  That’s what gave me peace, and if it can give someone else the peace that I’ve found, I’d be thrilled to pass that along.

Bribery. It works.

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So where do you stand on the issue of bribing your kids?  I’ve decided that I’m heartily in favor of it, and I’ll tell you why–it works! I have a spirited child .  Traditional parenting tactics just don’t work with him.  Spirited kids feel things more deeply, tend to be incredibly intelligent and very, very stubborn.  I suspect I might have been a spirited child as well because my mother STILL tells stories about how she had to read parenting book after parenting book to raise me, and I’m in my thirties.  I left an impression. We’ve been trying to join the kid’s class during church for a while now so that we could sit down and listen to a sermon together.  Can you imagine?  Sitting in a church service and not struggling with a three-year-old?  It was like an unattainable fantasy.  So that was the goal, but after several months of trying everything we could think of, we were at a loss. It was then than I remembered being bribed as a kid.  Good memories!  My dad bribed me with a Dairy Queen banana split to get me to put my face in the water when learning how to swim.  I don’t remember what I got, but I remember a bribe being involved for pulling out my dangling first loose tooth.  In fact, for those tough steps forward, my dad always sweetened the deal with a little bribe.

An interview with Trudy Morgan-Cole

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I’d like to introduce you to a rather prolific Christian novelist, Trudy Morgan-Cole.  She’s a friend of mine–one of those author buddies who keeps me striving to catch up with her.  She’s an excellent writer, and a fascinating person.  So without further ado, I give you Trudy: You have at least 20 books published. How did you get into writing novels?  I’ve always been both an avid reader and an avid writer. I tend to see the world in narrative ways: I can remember as a young child listening to conversations and mentally putting little “he said,” and “she said,” speech tags at the end of what people said, as if I were turning it into a story in my head

Don’t you just LOVE free books?

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It’s that time again.

Childhood drama

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So, as you already know, my son learned how to skate the other day.  So yesterday, I brought him back to the rink with a brand spanking new pair of ice skates of his very own.  This might look like a bad fall, but it wasn’t really.  This was my son saying, “Mommy, mommy, take a picture!” and then carefully lowering himself onto the ice and artfully arranging himself.

That’s Canada!

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“Franklin” is  a Canadian TV show for kids about a turtle and his friends.  In fact, I wasn’t even sure that it was a Canadian show until I googled it…  I suppose the animals (a beaver, a moose, a muskrat, a goose, a bear) should have tipped me off.  Also, there is the preoccupation with skating and hockey. My son loves “Franklin” and he’s been begging to go skating for months now.  I didn’t think he was quite ready, and truthfully, I really didn’t feel like hauling myself around the ice, either.  But today when we went to the swimming pool, we discovered it was closed to the public because of lessons, so we had to save the day somehow. The place we swim at has all sorts of sporty options, so this morning we rented some skates and I took him onto the ice.  I’ve never seen a kid work so hard at learning how to skate.  He fell again and again, and he just kept on getting up.  We had those metal bar things for the kids to hold onto while they learn, but he would have nothing of it.  He wanted to skate on his own or not at all

Only Children

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Whenever I tell people that we are only having one child, I tend to get the same response: “No!  You can’t stop at one!  That’s just MEAN!”  Never mind our medical reasons for this decision, we are definitely going to be a one child family, and that left me with a couple of worries. First of all, everyone says that only children are lacking in social skills.  I’ve had that in the back of my head for at least a year, and I’ve been a little worried.

The stories that freaked us right out.

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When I was little, my parents bought us the set of Uncle Arthur’s bedtime stories.  They are a great group of stories.  Most of them are about little kids who disobey and have to learn how to obey their parents.  Some of them are about the kindness of strangers… so on the whole, they are quite a positive group of stories.  Then, every once in a while, you happen upon a story that is a little bit… dated.

30 Below

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This is a picture of our window, and yes, that ice is on the inside.  That’s what happens when it gets really, really cold around here.  After having some delightfully spring-like January days, winter is back. -30C (-22F) is quite cold.  It can get worse around here, but it feels even colder after you’ve been spoiled with above freezing temps for a while.  I thought I was going to DIE as we ran out to the car to go to the swimming pool

Decorating with memories

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I had been agonizing over what exactly to do with some of my son’s baby clothes.  He was 4 lbs when he was born and 5 lbs when he was able to come home, so his first clothes are very, very little.  I had them tucked away in a box, but I had hoped to do something more decorative with them.  My initial idea was to sew them onto a quilt.  I’d seen that done before, and it was very pretty, but I don’t really have the skill for that.  So I decided on this instead: The frame is a $20 Walmart find.  Other than that, I used a piece of fabric to go behind and simply tacked the onsie to the fabric and framed it.  I love this because now when I look at my bedroom wall, I can see my son’s tiny little outfit from when he was a couple of months old.  (Clothes didn’t really fit him until then, even the preemie sizes.) I liked this so much that I decided to frame another little piece of family history: a doily made by my great grandmother.  I’m left with one more quandary, though…  my wedding dress. Now, I’ve heard a few idea of how to display a wedding dress.  I could get a dress form and put it in a corner.  I’ve heard of people framing their dresses, and mine is quite simple, so that is a possible option, but it would be just massive on the wall.  I’ve thought of putting it into a display box of some sort, and I’ve considered putting up a decorative hanger on the wall to hang it from.  I still haven’t come across quite the right solution.