July 24, 2025
Don’t Speak Harsh and Hasty Words
How Our Words Reflect Our Character and Influence for God
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Bible Text
“Therefore, rid yourselves of all malice and all deceit, hypocrisy, envy, and slander of every kind. Like newborn babies, crave pure spiritual milk, so that by it you may grow up in your salvation.”
— 1 Peter 2:1–2
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Introduction
Words have power – for life or for death (see Proverbs 18:21).
In a world often shaped by harsh opinions, sarcasm, and division, God calls us to a completely different way of living.
The apostle Peter urges us to lay aside all that is hard, fake, or cruel – and to start learning again, like children: with pure hearts, pure speech, and a deep longing to grow spiritually.
This devotional is an invitation not only to watch our words, but to examine the heart behind them.
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Devotional
Ellen G. White writes:
“We should study this command. It is our privilege to grow to the full stature of Christ (Ephesians 4:13). Let us not speak thoughtlessly or carelessly, wounding one another with unkind words! […] In the work of God, there should be no quarreling, no sharp words, no domineering tone. Workers should be pure, blameless, and holy in thought, word, and deed!”
Words reflect our character. If we want to serve God – at church, in school, or at home – it’s not just what we do that matters, but how we speak.
“There should be no harsh language, no irritable corrections, for God’s angels are present in every room. Jesus delights in speaking well of every faithful worker – and He will do so.”
– Ellen G. White
Our world doesn’t need more critics – it needs people who comfort, encourage, and build others up. There are many who are on the edge spiritually, almost dead in faith. And God calls us:
“Wake up and strengthen what remains and is about to die.”
– Revelation 3:2
A harsh comment can drive someone away from faith – a warm, sincere word can bring them back.
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Story – The Power of a Sentence
David was 16 years old – popular in school, athletic, smart – but sometimes sharp with his words.
He was quick with jokes, sarcastic, biting. Others often laughed when he made a “clever” remark – but sometimes his words hit harder than he realized.
There was a quiet boy in his class named Marco. Shy, unremarkable, often alone.
One day during break, David said half-jokingly:
“Marco, you’re seriously the slowest of all. No wonder no one asks you anything.”
Laughter. Mockery. And Marco walked away silently.
That evening, David received a message – from Marco.
Short, honest:
“I just wanted to say: your words today hurt. I’m already struggling to feel like I matter. I thought you were different.”
David was shaken. He barely slept. The next day, he went to find Marco.
Without excuses, he said:
“I’m sorry. I didn’t think. You are valuable – not just today, but always. I hope you can forgive me someday.”
Marco was silent for a while. Then he nodded.
A few days later, they sat together at lunch for the first time.
David had learned something:
A careless word can destroy.
An honest word can heal.
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What Can We Learn from This Story?
Words stay.
What we say can leave a deep imprint – for good or bad.
Sarcasm isn’t harmless.
Humor at someone else’s expense can wound more than we realize.
True maturity shows in self-control.
The “coolest comeback” doesn’t matter – but whether we can examine our words does.
Forgiveness begins with honesty.
Having the courage to apologize can heal relationships.
As Christians, we are called to speak differently.
Not like the world, but like Jesus – with truth and love.
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Reflection – What Does This Mean for You?
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How do you speak about others when they’re not around?
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How do you react when someone annoys or offends you?
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Do your words reflect the character of Jesus?
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Are there words you regret – and people you should apologize to?
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Practical Steps for Today
Let your speech be cleansed – from sarcasm, envy, and gossip.
Stop yourself before saying something sharp.
Encourage someone today whom others often overlook.
Speak a sentence that uplifts – not one that tears down. Read 1 Peter 2:1–2 and ask God to change your heart and your tongue.
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Prayer
Dear Father,
You see my heart – and You hear every word I speak.
Forgive me where I have hurt others with my words.
Cleanse my heart so that my words are pure.
Give me a desire today to grow – like a child who wants to learn.
Make me bold, kind, sincere.
Help me strengthen others, not tear them down.
Let me speak as someone who truly belongs to You.
Amen.
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Today’s Takeaway
“Words shape hearts – speak in a way that reflects the heart of Jesus.”
