There is little less attractive than someone who spends his or her life as an “ex.” Ex-spouse, ex-employee, or ex-Adventist—it doesn’t matter: it is unhealthy to spend your life having your identity be “the ex.” Yes, it’s hard to break free from a strong loyalty. You grieve. You regret. You may even fume and hate […] Source: https://atoday.org/editorial-why-i-dont-want-to-be-an-ex-adventist/