17.07.2025 | The Discipline of the Tongue | HEART ANCHOR | Youth Devotional

July 17, 2025
The Discipline of the Tongue
Speak so that life grows – not fades

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Bible Verse

“Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers.” – Ephesians 4:29 (KJV)

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Introduction

Do you know the feeling when a single sentence can hurt more than a slap in the face? A careless or angry word can cut deeper than any sword. At the same time, a loving word can heal, build up, and give hope. In Ephesians 4:29, Paul calls us to think about our words – not superficially, but deeply: “Let no corrupt word”, he says – nothing that tears down, wounds, or is empty. Instead, we are to speak “what is good for edification.”

Today’s topic: The Discipline of the Tongue. Words are not just sounds. They have power. They can bring life – or destruction.

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Devotional 

Our language – our tongue – is like a tool. And like every tool, it depends on how we use it.

Ellen White writes:

“Words possess a power that can reach from time into eternity. They can bring blessing or curse, life or death.”
(Christ’s Object Lessons, p. 337)

What does this mean in practice? Paul urges us to speak only words that build up, encourage, and bring grace. It’s not just about being polite. It’s about a heart attitude that is mindful of how we treat people – especially through our speech.

Because our tongue reveals what is in our heart:

“Out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks.” – Luke 6:45

If our heart is full of bitterness, anger, or pride – our words will reflect that. But if it’s filled with God’s love, mercy, and truth – our words will heal, strengthen, and give life.

Ellen White adds:

“We should speak in such a way that our words reflect what Christ has worked in us. The world should taste the love of heaven through our tongue.”
(The Adventist Home, p. 435)

So the discipline of the tongue begins in the heart – in prayer, in self-reflection, and in the desire to reflect God’s grace.

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Story: “The Feathers in the Wind”

In a small Romanian village lived a boy named Alex, who loved to talk – loudly, quickly, sometimes carelessly. One day he spread a rumor about his classmate Raul. It wasn’t completely false, but it wasn’t true either. Raul was laughed at, shunned, and didn’t come to school for days.

When Alex saw what his words had caused, he felt guilty. He went to the village priest and asked for advice. The priest listened silently, then brought an old pillow, cut it open, and said:
“Go up the hill and scatter these feathers into the wind. Then come back.”

Alex did it. When he returned, the priest said:
“Good. Now – go gather them all back.”

“That’s impossible!”, cried Alex.
The priest nodded: “So it is with your words. Once they are spoken, you can’t take them back.”

Alex understood. From that day on, he began to think before he spoke. He tried to choose words that healed – not harmed.

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Reflection – What does Ephesians 4:29 mean to you?

• What “feathers” have you perhaps already thrown into the wind?

• What words have deeply hurt – or deeply built you up?

• If people spoke about your words today – would they say: “Grace flows from their lips”?

Ephesians 4:29 is not just a language course. It is an invitation to speak healing language – the language of the Kingdom of God.

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Today’s Reflections

• Say at least one encouraging sentence to someone who doesn’t expect it.

• Pause before speaking. Ask yourself: Will what I say build up or tear down?

• Memorize Ephesians 4:29. Let it become your inner filter.

• Keep a “speech journal” for one week: Note when you consciously spoke positively – or when you should have.

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Prayer

Father in heaven,
You gave us the ability to speak – help us to use it for Your glory.
Forgive us where our words have hurt instead of healed.
Give us a pure heart so that our tongue also gives grace.
Discipline our speech through Your Holy Spirit – and teach us to speak as Jesus spoke.
Amen.

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Takeaway 

“My words are either windows of grace – or walls of pride. I decide.”