Advice to Children
What advice does Paul give to children, and how does he support that counsel from the Old Testament? Ephesians 6:1-3. (See also Matthew 18:1-5,Matthew 18:10; Mark 10:13-16.)
To appreciate fully Paulâs counsel to children, we must imagine it being read out in the house churches of the thriving metropolis of Ephesus. The word âchildrenâ (Greek, ta tekna) could refer to a wide range of ages, since children remained under the fatherâs authority until the father was 60 (in the Greek tradition) or until his death (in the Roman one). These children, though, are young enough to be under parental training (Ephesians 6:4) but old enough themselves to be disciples in their own right.
We hear Paul appealing to children, who were worshiping in Christian congregations, to obey and honor their parents âin the Lord,â that is, in Christ (compare Ephesians 5:22; Ephesians 6:4-5,Ephesians 6:7-9). We are invited here to respect children as themselves being disciples of Christ and to include them as active participants in worship. This makes the passage a foundational one for parenting and for ministry to children.
Paulâs command to obey is not absolute. When the commands of parents âcontradict the requirements of Christ, then, painful though it may be, they [children] must obey God and trust the consequences with Him.ââEllen G. White, The Adventist Home, p. 293.
Paul completes his exhortation to children by quoting the fifth commandment, bearing witness to the high value he places on the Ten Commandments as a source of guidance for Christian believers (an obvious feature of Ephesians 4:1-32; Ephesians 5:1-33; Ephesians 6:1-9; especially Ephesians 4:25,Ephesians 4:28; Ephesians 5:3-14). He begins the quotation (â âHonor your father and mother,â â Ephesians 6:2), breaks into it with an editorial comment (âwhich is the first commandment with promise,â Ephesians 6:2), and then completes the citation (â âthat it may be well with you and you may live long on the earth,â â Ephesians 6:3). The fifth commandment bears witness that honoring parents is part of Godâs design for human beings to thrive. Respect for parents, imperfect though they may be, will help foster health and well-being.
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