
Photo: MorgueFile I saw a comic strip in which the wife said to her husband, “I know you believe you understand what you think I said, but I’m not sure you realize what you heard is not what I meant.” Try saying that quickly three times and you may begin to understand how truly difficult it is to express what we want to say so that the other person will understand. The key, my friends, is communication. In this book 1 , ” Making Love Last Forever ,” Gary Smalley refers to five levels of intimacy in communication, moving from the superficial to the meaningful.






